Many singles do terrible things in the name of love which
some are as follows;
1.
BLOOD OATH
Some boys and girls who claim to love
each other too much take oath by licking each other’s blood and promising to
stay as lovers till death do them part.
Most times, such lovers are teenagers
who do not know the implications of such an oath. Such actions usually have
disastrous consequences in future. Don’t ever take such an oath. It is sinful,
criminal and unwarranted.
2.
ELOPING
Many so called lovers elope (Run away
from home) to live in a secret place. Many eloped with their lovers because
their parents did not allow them to marry their choice boyfriends.
Others will say they decided to leave
school, because they love him.
It must be noted that eloping with a
girl below the age of 18 years is a criminal offence, and punishable by
imprisonment.
3.
COHABIT
Some spinsters and bachelors also
begin to live together as husband and wife without the necessary traditional
procedure for marriage. In that case, the man would not care where the girl
comes from or who her parents are. He does not pay any dowry or bride price.
Traditionally, this is sacrilegious, socially,
it is irresponsible and spiritually, it is sinful.
4.
GETTING PREGNANT/PRE-MARITAL SEXUAL
INTERCOURSE
Some ladies who claim to be madly in
love decide to get pregnant and have baby/child for their lovers without first
getting married to them. Some of them believe that getting pregnant for such
men is to show that they love them, not knowing that most times, the responsibility
of fatherhood scares such men away from the girls.
Sometimes, some girls believe they
can use such tactics to force their boyfriends to marry them. Many of them end
up having bastard children. Several others drop out of school and ruin their
future.
5.
VIOLENCE
Some singles that call themselves
“jealous lovers” fight other boys or girls, they regard as intruders in their
love- triangle. This is a very bad habit. Some people pour acid on their
boy/girl friends just because he/she was seen with another person. Some of them
even kill their so-called lovers as a result of jealousy. This is stupidity!
6.
WEEPING
Some girls weep all night if they see
another girl with their boyfriends. Although it is better than violence or
attempted suicide, it could lead to devilish actions.
There are many other men there
outside who could even love them genuinely.
7.
ATTEMPTED SUICIDE
Some singles have attempted to commit
suicide just because their so-called lovers jilted them. They never realized
that such callous heart breakers never loved them in the first place.
Attempted suicide is a criminal
offence punishable by law. Don’t ever kill yourself because a man or lady
jilted you. There are many beautiful/handsome people out there who will love
you genuinely (Ask GOD for direction).
For you not to be jilted, avoid any
relationship that is based on sex, money, lies and deceit leading to series of
abortions, quarrels and violence.
Don’t marry a man because of his
currency but for being current. When a man is not current, he’s not correct!
Talented Olayinka
